When I was preteen I used to feel ill about the person who was long victimized as Poison Giver (kha phog mi), I dread hitherto, I feared
till now. Such is the strength of inculcation and unreformed culture.
But now I analyzed that something is fallacious in the societal belief.
And I feel wrong severely; victims are neither
considered nor put to front as a subject of praise and there is no education
and awareness to purge negative conviction in the society till now, and hither
to victim was neglected by the multitude. The emotional exploitation of being
neglected from the society would even leads to taking one’s life as recent
happiness rate index calculated that 80 percent of the people who took their own
life were from rural areas. I felt that it could be the rationality behind tragic
suicide for there will be more than 3 victims out of 40 households in rural village
and as a fuel to fire many people in rural areas were robustly intertwined with
the orthodox belief that they ought to avoid victims even with regards to
communication to prevent themselves from ill affecting. The victims’ generation would be in pains, problems and
would feel severe depression if we do not make them now physically and
psychologically balanced with societal egality and further more due to
multitudinous negligence, some of the victim’s children indulges in abusing suppressed
sycophantic substances which ultimately leads to the loss of handful of country’s
productive asset. Something must be regenerated in our society
in order to foreclose an inequality to the victims due to social-conventional
thoughts and conviction that has been passed down innumerous generations. Now it
is an era to alter the nature of our thoughts and belief upon them as the generation
changes and so when our nation trots along the democratic path abiding the
principles of Gross National Happiness.
Think: why there is poison giver per se only in Bhutan? Did you ever hear such cases in foreign land? No one has
undergone case study about it till now. It is incredible if it is only in Rural Bhutan!
This is the question I often ask to myself whenever I am alone,whenever some mysterious things happen to me coinciding to my intriguing thought;why I exist here in this mysterious cosmos?,and whenever people around me reacts badly to this and positively to that simple deed of mine.But no matter how much I contemplate on it,no matter how much I query myself innumerably,and no matter how much I search into every nook and corner of my heart literally;I did not get the answer that leads me to the abode of self realization.The more I ponder over it the more complex it become to me like the complexity of the Emptiness in the Buddhism.This is the confusion-provoking query where the Emptiness is related to it and negates the most common and ordinary answers of the question.For instance if I say that I am student,but I am not student without teacher,I am not boy without parents,not king sans citizen,not father without children,not boyfriend without gal-friend,not winner sans loser and not topp…